Community Routes

Your Birthrights

I am so excited to publish this episode about our 5 birthrights and a return to Pia Mellody's Model. This episode is critical to understanding the perspective we bring to the table at Community Routes. This whole episode is full of personal breakthroughs for Samuel and Sarah as we tackle some significant topics. What rights are we owed as humans? Where are we wounded?

As Julie will cover, "to look at these core issues is not to blame, but to get our story straight. "

Community Routes: Codependency

Hey neighbors! Samuel here. My voice is shot, but I'm glad I get a chance to send you this message anyway. "The crew is back in-person!" We finally met in JHR Headquarters: Worthington, Ohio. You can feel the energy in the room. I am so excited for y'all to hear our newest episode. We talk about the buzzword "Codependency" and what it means to have an unhealthy, boundariless relationship. We also dive into healthy relationship practices and what healthy boundaries look like. I hope you enjoy this episode as much as I do!

Community Routes: Difficult Conversations Revisited

This week we discuss the hard topic of difficult conversations. With COVID 19 and the Black Lives Matter movement, it's imperative that we learn how to talk with each other. Samuel shares his experience with Communication Theory, which compliments Julie's mental health studies. We tackle felt safety, as well as some strategies for calming down. I hope you enjoy this week!

Community Routes: Mother's and Father's Day

This week we discuss a recent holiday: Mother's Day. Mother's Day can be difficult for a variety of reasons, so we sit down and work through what health during a holiday looks like. We discuss expectations, grief, and the roles parents should play in their child's life.

Community Routes: Coronavirus, Stress, and the Body

This week we discuss the constant stress of Coronavirus. This stress is a constant buzz, even when we are trying to relax. Julie, Sarah, and Samuel dive into this stress and how to best adapt to the stay-at-home order.

Community Routes: Long Term Resiliency

Part 2 of our COVID-19 discussion as we check in about what has been the hardest part for us personally, what has been helpful, and what we are learning through the quarantine. We process the exhaustion and stress, how to care for ourselves in the midst of it all and find post-traumatic growth through resiliency in the long haul. Our gratitude and relational connections help keep us strong in knowing that we are not alone. Join us for words of wisdom from Bruce Perry, Maya Angelou, Stephen Porges, and the Polyvagal Theory as we learn how to navigate through trauma.

Community Routes: Coronavirus and Quarantine

We are so excited to be back! We fired up the ol' laptops and recorded from home. This week is a lot to process, so don't hesitate to take a break during the episode to take a deep breath, drink a glass of water, or to take a walk outside. I hope in this time of uncertainty that our episode is helpful in describing some of the emotions we go through during crises like this.

Community Routes: Anxiety in Adults

This week we cover anxiety in adults when we feel outside our window of tolerance and hyperaroused. We talk about what anxiety can do for us, how to pay attention to our feelings to know what we need, and what it looks like to regulate the excess energy. We also welcome Sarah Wakefield to our Community Routes Team!

Community Routes: Understanding Children's Anxiety

In this episode we unpack some of the behaviors we see on the surface when children and adolescents experience anxiety, as well a lot of overwhelming feelings that are stirred up underneath. We give practical phrases to give support as parents or teachers offering a safe space to kids and teens when they are overwhelmed. We look at anxiety through the lens of secure attachment to help co-regulate emotion in this hyperaroused state outside the window of tolerance.

"Hey Warrior" and "Hey Awesome" can be found at www.heysigmund.com

Community Routes: Lisa's Last Episode

A special episode where Adrianne, Julie, and Samuel all say goodbye to Lisa, who is moving to Iowa. We discuss change and transformation, as well as good mental health practices to accompany that change. The New Year brings hope and transition, so we embrace it in this week's episode. Happy New Year! We'll miss you, Lisa!

Community Routes: Smash the Stigma

In this episode, we’re ready to ring in the new year, leave stigma behind and create community and safe spaces for healing, validation, and growth! Join us as we smash the stigma and look forward in 2020 to a clearer vision for mental health and strong support!

Community Routes: Holiday Help, Grief

In the conclusion of our holiday arc, we tackle the topic of grief during the holidays. Grief can return in the winter months, so we discuss what grief feels like and how to cope. Join us with special guest, Todd Richards, who shares insights from his own experiences as a pastor. While he holds a masters in counseling, even better you get to hear Samuel with his dad!

Community Routes: Holiday Help, Coping Skills

In this episode of our holiday arc, we talk about coping skills to help us through the dark days of fall/winter and times when our grief feels more painful. Find some extra support for your weary or hurting heart this holiday season!

Community Routes: Holiday Help, Dealing with Friends and Family

This week we started an arc on the upcoming holidays and how to stay balanced around difficult people. We tied in our episodes of emotions and boundaries because they are so helpful to keep us grounded. We also work through some different scenarios and discuss the stress of family gatherings. Remember your self-care through the holidays too!

Community Routes: Boundaries

In this episode, we talk about walls and boundary violations, and how to develop a secure sense of self through mutual respect. We also explore functional boundaries from recovery guru Pia Mellody and Terry Real.

Community Routes: ACES and Resiliency

This week we discuss the ACES Test and resiliency. ACES (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and what is not included in that list. What else to be on the look out for and how to cultivate resiliency.

ACES: https://n.pr/2mI7UDB

Community Routes: Trauma and the Window of Tolerance

Samuel, Julie, and Lisa talk trauma and its effects on the brain and behavior. Julie expands on the polyvagal theory and the gang discusses our Window of Tolerance, as well as our "blue" and "red" responses.

Community Routes: Music/Polyvagal

In this episode, we talk about how music impacts our nervous system, our mood, and helps us process our emotions. Playlists connect us to others and remind us of memories. Polyvagal Theory informs us of how music shifts our autonomic nervous system.